Sunday, July 10, 2005 @7:35 PM
i often think that when someone invited you to his/her birthday party, u shud feel at least privileged or honoured coz it means plainly that the person treats u as a friend and that ur presence made a difference in the celebration. however, planning my birthday celebration made me realised how unappreciative and arrogant some people can be. the worst is not to even reply when a person invites u. dun u think that is just so mean? imagine the person's difficulties in planning his/her birthday. i came across such 2 people when i was inviting them for my birthday. they didnt not even bother replying me despite me sending them numerous reminders to confirm with me asap. it was only that i got super pissed that i sent them a rather "harsh" messgae before they replied. wtf man. do they really think they are some queens or godesses? eventually one replied that she can make it the other said she will at least try as she's bz with sch stuff. seriously speaking, if u do not have the intention to attend one's birthday party, u can come up with a lie stating that you will not be able to make it.. even if it's a very lame and exaggerated lie, the host will usually give u the benefit of doubt what. even if u said something vague like," i got something on that day "or something along that line, i'm sure the host will definitely appreciate the effort u made in replying and thinking of such a vague reason.
today as usual i sent out repetitive smses to people who had yet to reply me. the worst reply was this.. "hi grace. i'm sorry i will not be able to make it. enjoy ur special day" i was momentarily stunned. i replied as nicely as i could, "i'm not grace. sinyee here." i could feel smoke rushing out fom my hot ears. i can still remember the time i gave her my hp number vividly. and no, grace wasnt present when i gave this particular person my hp number.
went to buy some stuff just now. turned out mum was more excited and stressed up than i was. dunno y man.. lol..perhaps her first child is turning 21 bahz..
Anyway today is me and dear's one and a half year of being together.. we are still going strong and i will undoubtedly learn to treasure him. he's the greatest guy in my life.. he's also the first person who love me so unconditionally.. BAOBEI.. WO AI NI..
♥ -Dollicious-Sinner-